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Solo Mother

Archive for November 2006

November 29th, 2006

Babylune and the single mother — single at birth

Kate over at Babylune has interviewed Gloria Gamat, who writes Cancer Commentary, about what it’s like to be a single mother from the beginning.
Thank you, Kate and Gloria, for such a thoughtful conversation about the real life choices mothers make every day when we’re left to raise our children more or less by ourselves. I […]

By christina -- 3 comments

November 28th, 2006

Our first minicrisis. Life without health insurance.

When my kid started to complain about his plumbing, the future grandmother in me didn’t waste much time. I’m not one to run to the doctor every time he sniffles, but five days of uncomfortable pee and I’d had enough. But how does a single mother make the time to get to the doctor?
Tags: children, […]

By christina -- 2 comments

November 28th, 2006

One Word.

from the effervescent Fannfare, i bring you my life in single utterances:
Yourself: waxing
Your partner: dreamy
Your hair: whispery
Your mother: shining
Your father: devoted
Your favorite item: suede
Your dream last night: thrilling
Your favorite drink: chai
Your dream car: hybrid
Your dream home: future
The room you are in: cubicle
Your ex: very
Your fear: running
Where you want to be in ten years: successful
Who you […]

By christina -- 0 comments

November 26th, 2006

Thanksgiving wrap-up

I’m stealing someone’s low bandwidth, since I won’t get hooked up meself until the first of December; believe me, it’s been a long six weeks without decent Net access!
One of the not so charming things about where we live is who else lives in the house with us: there are Rodents of Undetermined Size prowling […]

By christina -- 0 comments

November 25th, 2006

single mothers in the military

Thanks to Stealthbadger for pointing me towards this article in the Washington Post about single parents in today’s military: Yearning to be Whole Again.  I can’t imagine what it must be like Over There for the blesh and blood we collectively lump under the faceless label of ‘the military’ or ‘our troops’ or what have […]

By christina -- 0 comments

November 24th, 2006

One mother’s hilarious way to deal with the Terrible Two’s

Fannfare is one of my all-time favorite momblogs. She’s acid funny, deadly honest and did I mention, laugh out loud?
We’ve all been there. We’ve all waited with dread, lest the nightly news lead story is, “Way Pissed Off Toddler Carried Screaming Over Father’s Shoulder, Film at 11″… with humiliating closeups of spit, redface, pounding fists and the occasional chewing […]

By christina -- 1 comment

November 22nd, 2006

At what cost, love?

They were constant companions. Thick as thieves. If one couldn’t, the other could. If one was afraid, the other was fearless. If one was lost, the other found him.
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By christina -- 5 comments

November 21st, 2006

Words of the day

A very kind friend shared this passage with me. It’s from a book he read a long time ago; these words stayed with him:
“The evidence of the goodness in life stands before us.  I am not blind.  I can see.  And so, to talk too much about the past would reduce it.  This is what […]

By christina -- 4 comments

November 20th, 2006

How not to break up.

It’s difficult to talk on the phone with the Ex right now. I don’t have anything to say that doesn’t start off with, “Why?” I’m angry. While I’m excited about the life and possibilities that are opening in front of me and my our child, I’m hurt, angry and bewildered that there was apparently something […]

By christina -- 12 comments

November 19th, 2006

Can organic milk really assuage that mother’s guilt?

When we moved back to the States, I made a few conscious decisions while running around in a panic of FOOD! CLOTHING! SHELTER! WORK! This newly single mother decided that the Earth was a place worth taking care of, and that she’d better start doing a better job of it.
Tags: activism, Amish, divorce, food, guilt, […]

By christina -- 6 comments