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Solo Mother

Archive for September 2007

September 30th, 2007

Sunday’s smile

Tonight, I helped my parents throw a dinner party in honor of a local theater’s thirtieth year. I ended up working it. Worked my butt off. But my folks were so happy, it was worth it. I love to help, and the way my weeks have been going lately, I really needed a couple of […]

By christina -- 1 comment

September 30th, 2007

Working Mother Magazine’s top 100 best companies list

When I was setting up my new little single mother household, I did a lot of research into which companies were family-friendliest. Working Mother magazine puts out a great list every year of the best companies to work for if work/life balance is important to you, and you want a little less worry about what’s […]

By christina -- 0 comments

September 29th, 2007

Fall fun for your little family

Last year when my husband and I broke up, I stared at a desktop calendar–you know, one of those big paper ones that you put down on your desk–and stared in horror at all those blank days stretching before me. The beginning of the rest of my life, yes, but also an unknown path down […]

By christina -- 2 comments

September 28th, 2007

a little single mama rambling

I’m going through some Big Scary Stuff right now, stuff I’m not ready to talk about, but Stuff that has hit me back down into the realm of humble and grateful and… humble. And so in love with my kid it’s beyond the capacity of my heart to contain it. I hope, when things get […]

By christina -- 6 comments

September 28th, 2007

The cost of living single

When you separate from your partner, each of you then maintains one set of everything. Two homes, two sets of furnishings, two piles of clothes for the kids, two sets of toys… utility bills, car payments, etc. It adds up. All those expenses were things you used to divide right down the line.
I’m trying […]

By christina -- 4 comments

September 28th, 2007

A little help from the blogosphere for (single) moms

I love reading Kate’s blog, Babylune, even though I’m not going to have another baby any time soon–if ever (it takes two to tango, ya know). Her post about coming to terms with family size and fertility is hitting home tonight.
And I pop over to see what Charlene’s family is up to at Weary Parent […]

By christina -- 1 comment

September 25th, 2007

the state of (the three of) us, one year out

We still are not officially divorced. Something about money. It’s expensive to get divorced, though I’ve been pinching my pennies against the day. Obviously, this is not something that can continue, unresolved, indefinitely. There are new lives to build, new dreams to chase, and those old strings will need to be cut someday.
I have […]

By christina -- 3 comments

September 24th, 2007

has it been a year already?

I’ve been watching this day creep closer and closer on the calendar. Finally. I’ve survived my first year of life as a single mother. On some counts, I’d say I’ve more than survived. I know my child is thriving, full of health, happiness, and a kindness of spirit that makes everything I have fought for […]

By christina -- 9 comments

September 23rd, 2007

A community rallies around a single mother

Sara Cole was struck by a drunk driver while she unloaded one of her son’s bikes from the back of her car. She was pinned between the two cars and her hips and legs were smashed. After weeks in the intensive care unit, she has been moved to another unit while her four sons and […]

By christina -- 4 comments

September 22nd, 2007

the magic of movies

There’s this hip, nondenominational, warmfuzzy church in my town that puts on such family favorites as the Easter Eggstravaganza and a Mother’s Day luncheon that makes moms smile. They aren’t marketing Jesus. They don’t mention God. They just promote family and happiness and make memories in my neighborhood. I heart them.
Last night, the King […]

By christina -- 6 comments