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Archive for the ‘divorce’ Category

January 16th, 2008

A fascinating look at the economic forces behind divorce

If you read nothing else today, flip over to Slate and read the excerpts from Tim Harford’s new book, The Logic of Life.
The first excerpt was published yesterday, about the effect of current factors on marriage — utterly fascinating look at the economic reasons behind what armchair pundits are quick to label ‘Black Culture’… but […]

By christina -- 6 comments

January 8th, 2008

Did you survive D-DAY yesterday? Or are you now a single mom?

I’m single, and getting through the holidays was hard. Apparently, it’s not any easier for married couples. In fact, the holidays often put a crushing burden on marriages, and the first working Monday after the New Year sees a spike in divorce filings. According to to a piece in the Guardian yesterday (thanks to Kate […]

By christina -- 0 comments

December 31st, 2007

be careful what you say–it’s a small world

It was a beautiful, mild day yesterday and the King of Everything and I strolled over to our local park, confident that his new soccer ball could lure a new playmate. We scouted out the two play areas for suitable kids, and chose the one that had the biggest, runningest kids on the playground.
It was […]

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November 26th, 2007

Listen up, divorced dads

This diatribe will go just as well towards vindictive, angry mothers as it will fathers but, as I’ve just gotten done with a tour of the Blogosphere and read some of the nasty, crappy things some fathers have done to their children to get back at their ex’es… this post will address revenge-seeking fathers.
You suck.
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By christina -- 9 comments

November 24th, 2007

Heartfelt

There have been some big, quiet, oddly painful hurts going around inside me lately. In conversations with men and women who have lost their spouses and are trying to put the pieces back together, to knit some kind of life with the fragments they have left, I have stumbled often upon the gaping hole where […]

By christina -- 2 comments

November 23rd, 2007

A little tax advice for the soon to be single

Kelly over at b5media’s Tax Girl was invited to write an article for one of my favorite divorce blogs, The Modern Woman’s Divorce Guide. As we head into the end of the year, she’s got seven great tips for how to deal with your new status.
Ready?
Tags: divorce, single-mom, single-mother, solo-mother, taxes

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By christina -- 2 comments

November 19th, 2007

Dealing with the holidays

Here we go again.
Where is your child this Thanksgiving? This Christmas, Chanuka, Kwanza,Eid, Dilwali? And how are you going to cope with all the turmoil and the missing and the sadness and the lost memories?
I’m worried about you, single mother. We’ll talk about how to make it easier for the kids, later.
Tags: depression, divorce, […]

By christina -- 2 comments

September 5th, 2007

OK, so the ex is gone… now what?

Single mothers all over are nodding their heads and sighing over this one. The ex swoops in, the kid’s in heaven for a few days or weeks or whatnot, and then you’re left to pick up the pieces. No more dessert right before bedtime. No more stops at the toy store every day. No more […]

By christina -- 6 comments

September 3rd, 2007

If you’re facing a divorce when there are children involved, think mediation

The ever amazing Kate over at Baby Lune sent me a link to an article in the Star about using mediation as an alternative to messy, much more expensive court divorces.
When contemplating a split of such magnitude, how you deal with the first steps will set the tone for your interactions later on. It is […]

By christina -- 3 comments

September 2nd, 2007

The ex visits…

When we first were married, neither of us could remember what life had been like before ‘us’. Now that it has all fallen apart, I can’t remember what brought us together in the first place. I have no idea who that man sleeping in our daybed is.
Our son is glad to see his papa. […]

By christina -- 8 comments