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Archive for the ‘sharing the load’ Category

January 20th, 2008

PostSecret has a message for us today…

Do you worry that you won’t be able to provide a balance for your child as he or she grows up and misses a father figure? Some of you are full-time solomothers, single parents without significant involvement from your child’s father (and, I suspect, there are some solodads who lurk and read here; know I […]

By christina -- 2 comments

September 2nd, 2007

The ex visits…

When we first were married, neither of us could remember what life had been like before ‘us’. Now that it has all fallen apart, I can’t remember what brought us together in the first place. I have no idea who that man sleeping in our daybed is.
Our son is glad to see his papa. […]

By christina -- 8 comments

August 26th, 2007

Sunday’s ritual

It seems we’ve fallen into another golden time we’ll look back on when we’re older–with fondness and nostalgia, I hope. I’m a lucky single mother.
When I was a little girl, my father would take me to Doc Dalinsky’s over on Wisconsin and O Streets. It was a pharmacy, an old fashioned drugstore, where Nettie who […]

By christina -- 2 comments

July 11th, 2007

Looking at single daddies from the other side of the lens

Ike and Amy both brought up an interesting point in response to my post yesterday about the Boston Globe article on the emerging trend of single fathers heading up the household.
In a word: huh?
Now, I know that marriages don’t just break all by themselves. And I know that men aren’t always to blame for the […]

By christina -- 2 comments

May 21st, 2007

some advice from the school of hard knocks

Listen up, single moms. I’ve got a story to tell. It’s got a big lesson right up front: careful what you say. It might come round and bite you on the ass.
Someone in my family isn’t speaking to me, for good reason. I opened up my big mouth and said a whole bunch of stuff […]

By christina -- 7 comments

March 14th, 2007

Co-Abode helps match single families for shared living

You don’t have to be a a close reader of SoloMother to get the hint: I’d like to combine families with someone to share the burdens and joys of single parenthood. We’re not meant to live in a vacuum, and trying to take care of children, home and career all by one’s self is less […]

By christina -- 0 comments

March 13th, 2007

the voice inside my head is getting loud today…

It’s been a rough five months. I suppose if anyone at work googles my name, they will know a bit about what I go through every day, but I try to keep my personal life out of the office. Really I do. But on Thursday I have to take the King of Everything to the […]

By christina -- 5 comments

March 1st, 2007

so, I bet you’re dying to hear about the visit

I wished, not for the first time, that the King of Everything’s father lived closer. They have their own relationship, and the KoE is getting better about expressing what he does and does not like, and how he expects to be treated. I hope he can continue to do so, as he grows up, in […]

By christina -- 6 comments

February 20th, 2007

it’s all too much

You know, in between the death of my aunt and the new job and the grueling schedule we have now, you’d think I’d be moaning and groaning, dooming and glooming. Nope. Let’s add to the mix the phone call I got this morning for the KoE’s dad, who had found a fabulous, last minute deal […]

By christina -- 4 comments

January 23rd, 2007

lonely is as lonely does

It’s the wee small hours of the morning that are the hardest for me. If I don’t get to bed by nine in the evening, I catch a second wind and am up until 1AM, rattling around the house, thinking too much.
Being a single parent, I find I’m a prisoner in my own home after […]

By christina -- 15 comments

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