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Solo Mother

Archive for the ‘love’ Category

March 11th, 2008

Career. Kids. Single mother. How does this work, again?

Over at Career and Kids, Elizabeth is having a scheduling challenge the opposite of mine: she’s got a week filled with kids’ activities, while I’m up to my eyeballs in work. I need a kid-free week, but that’s just not possible. One deadline got pushed back because of a little thing called herding cats: trying […]

By christina -- 8 comments

March 4th, 2008

I’m thinking about men tonight

Always listen to your heart, single mom. Especially when it’s saying something you don’t want to hear, or whispering something soft and poignant and a little yearning…
My son has a crush on a neighbor-man. This man and his wife live on the corner, with their three wonderful dogs. One day, this man even […]

By christina -- 5 comments

February 21st, 2008

Musical theater for single mothers… and everyone else

Just when I though I was done with this silly business of love, my February theme by default—just when you thought it was safe to peek into the pages of SoloMother and not be pestered and bothered with thoughts on Valentines and sweetness and light—the Fates smack me with the stage version of Company, Steven […]

By christina -- 2 comments

February 14th, 2008

My funny Valentine

Being a single mom is an adventure filled with bright moments. Like tonight.
The King of Everything and I have been planning our Valentine’s Day date night for a week. We’ve been so excited about it, even though it’s the same date night we ever do — Johnny Rockets. It was so much fun to […]

By christina -- 1 comment

February 2nd, 2008

Are good memories a sign of healing? You tell me, single mom!

The other morning, I found myself on all fours, bouncing maniacally up and down on the King of Everything’s bed. “Get up get up get up!” I giggled, and the child woke, bouncing and thrashing and wondering what the heck was wrong with his crazy mother. I, myself, was wondering where this strange feeling of […]

By christina -- 5 comments

December 26th, 2007

we don’t all stay single mothers for ever

One of my favorite solomothers–a beautiful singer, a witty writer, a juggler of schedules and budgets and boo-boos and life–is no longer quite so single. Her beau proposed on Christmas day, and she said yes. Her ring is a beautiful blue stone, a topaz? Surrounded with little diamonds, it sparkles like the sky. Truly a […]

By christina -- 7 comments

October 14th, 2007

Crash test mommy in real time

Poking around on the Net found me an extraordinary woman who suddenly became a mother after the utterly unexpected death of her younger sister left a baby born one month prematurely in the hospital…
I don’t know how she did it except that well, she did it the way we all do it.
You just […]

By christina -- 1 comment

October 7th, 2007

kid wants cat and vice versa

I feel like a line from Rocky Horror tonight:
Dr. Everett Scott: We’ve got to get out of this trap! Before this… decadence… saps our wills. I’ve got to be strong, und try to… hang on! Or else, my mind may well *snap*! Und my life… will be lived…
[singing]
for ze *thrills*…
I don’t know how […]

By christina -- 7 comments

September 30th, 2007

Sunday’s smile

Tonight, I helped my parents throw a dinner party in honor of a local theater’s thirtieth year. I ended up working it. Worked my butt off. But my folks were so happy, it was worth it. I love to help, and the way my weeks have been going lately, I really needed a couple of […]

By christina -- 1 comment

September 11th, 2007

What September 11th means to me…

Today, I’m thinking about my cousin, whose birthday it is today. She’s three years younger than I, and this year has thrown her some challenges that have been hard to stand. She’s the most cheerful woman I know. Sweet, even. Generous with her time and her smile.
When this day rolls around, as it has with […]

By christina -- 1 comment