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Archive for the ‘parenting’ Category

February 22nd, 2008

TV, toys and your child’s imagination… my, how times have changed

There was a fascinating report on NPR’s Morning Edition yesterday on children, imaginative play, television and marketing.
“Old-Fashioned Play Builds Serious Skills” by Alix Spiegel. It brings to light some fascinating things we’ve suspected but couldn’t put our finger on…
television is bad for you. No. Really?
Tags: Alix Spiegel, childhood development, children, NPR, self-regulation, single-mom, single-mother, television, […]

By christina -- 2 comments

February 15th, 2008

My final Valentine: a book that might save a marriage

He seems disconnected, it’s like he doesn’t care about the new baby.
She doesn’t pay any attention to him anymore, not since the baby arrived.
If you found this website because you’re considering divorce… if you’re feeling lost, angry, resentful, confused, and/or terrified now that your little family includes a baby, I recommend that you read […]

By christina -- 4 comments

January 23rd, 2008

Pride, tough love, and consequences…

I am secretly very proud of my son, usually. It doesn’t help that today, I forgot my cell at the new office (yay, new office!) and when I took the KoE back with me to pick it up, my compatriot on the business development side of things waited til my son’s back was turned […]

By christina -- 8 comments

January 20th, 2008

PostSecret has a message for us today…

Do you worry that you won’t be able to provide a balance for your child as he or she grows up and misses a father figure? Some of you are full-time solomothers, single parents without significant involvement from your child’s father (and, I suspect, there are some solodads who lurk and read here; know I […]

By christina -- 2 comments

January 10th, 2008

Tough love, mom style: sell the car. Save the kid.

I’m sure you’ve read about this one by now: Mom finds alcohol in the car she bought for her 19 year old son, and so she takes out an ad in the local paper and sells it. Not only does she sell it, but she tells the whole town why:
“OLDS 1999 Intrigue. Totally uncool parents […]

By christina -- 4 comments

January 7th, 2008

Things I’m going to have to get used to as the single mother of a boy

We’ve already discussed potty training a little entity with outdoor plumbing. The butt and fart jokes, I am told, are not solely within the realm of boyhood. I have calmly dealt with the fact that my kid mooned someone in his camp because he thought it would be funny.
What seems to be pushing me […]

By christina -- 9 comments

January 5th, 2008

How to be a perfect parent

Don’t we all beat ourselves up? Don’t we wring our mental hands over instances when we could have been more patient, more attentive, more giving with our children? Aren’t you sick of being less than perfect?
I sure am…
Tags: Mothering-magazine, parenting, perfect-parent, positive-parentingShare This

By christina -- 0 comments

January 2nd, 2008

Glen Close speaks about single motherhood

We might think the stars have it made, but they have to get up and take a shower just like the rest of us. Like other well-known, affluent, successful people in this world, they might have access to nannies and private schools and a more flexible schedule than us poor 9 to 5 slobs, but […]

By christina -- 3 comments

November 10th, 2007

Mother’s little helper

I was amazed. I was astounded. I was… dumbstruck by the fact that he didn’t know how to mop a floor. He had never had to do so, and very calmly suggested that I show him how to do it, and then he would know.
He was thirty-something years old!
Tags: household-chores, single-mom, single-mother, single-parent, toddlersShare This

By christina -- 2 comments

November 5th, 2007

My son, the class clown

I’m so dismayed.
He’s off his rocker. Today he hit a girl in his class because he didn’t want to share the monkey bars with her. A few days ago, he knocked the same girl’s lunch tray into her lap. He says she teases him and tells him potty jokes. I say I don’t care.
Tags: class-clown, […]

By christina -- 9 comments

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