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Solo Mother

Archive for the ‘separation’ Category

November 11th, 2006

Yo, K-Fed, Britney! Think about the kids. (subliminal message: Joint custody)

She dumps him via SMS and files for sole legal and physical custody of their two children. He counters the very next day with a suit for sole custody and spousal support.
I’m not a mind reader, and I’m not going to pretend I know what’s really in their hearts. But it seems to me, he’s […]

By christina -- 0 comments

October 24th, 2006

Some thoughts on Child Support (non)Payments

Sometimes, the only thing standing between a divided family and poverty is… child support. If a parent decides to withhold that money, for whatever reason, he or she is putting the child in jeaopardy. And since I’m a single mother, I’m going to only write about it from the ex-husband not paying […]

By christina -- 5 comments

October 21st, 2006

Hello, I’d like to trade my butt with Angelina Jolie’s butt, please?

I’ve lost ten pounds since we decided to break up. This is good.
I’ve done it by not eating more than one real meal a day. This is bad.
Diuretics have been veddy veddy good to me: if I drink any more coffee, I’m going to have to put a Starbuck’s bathroom in my purse — […]

By christina -- 11 comments

October 19th, 2006

You Think This is Easy? Realism?

Listen up. I make this look good. If you asked my friends and family, they’d tell you I’m doing fantastically well for myself, in great spirits, up and upbeat and…
Want to know the truth? I’m tense most of the time. An inner voice inside me is screaming in fury and frustration over the way things […]

By christina -- 0 comments

October 12th, 2006

you’ve both got it rough.

I don’t get a break. There is no one to whom I can pass the buck. I am end-all be-all in my son’s life. There is no father to trade off with. It’s hard. I have to console my son when he’s sad his father isn’t with us. I have to put up pictures of my […]

By christina -- 9 comments

October 10th, 2006

Hey, mamacita!

Disclaimer: I’m not even a month into singlehood yet. I’m not interested in jumping some poor man’s bones. I just want that delicious feeling of desirability in all my mama-hipped, stress-acne glory.
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By christina -- 1 comment

October 10th, 2006

Top Ten Most Fabulous Things for Single Mothers

In honor of this month’s Carnival roundup on b5media, courtesy of Kelly over at Thrifty Mommy, I present, without further ado:
Top Ten Most Fabulous Things for Single Mothers

The Six O’Clock Scramble - when  you absolutely, positively, do not have time to shop or cook.
Satsuma: It’s impossible to be depressed when you smell this good.
Everyday Minerals: Flawless, glowing skin, […]

By christina -- 2 comments

October 10th, 2006

Well, how did I get here?

More than one path leads to single motherhood. I know women who never married the fathers of their children and women who never even met the fathers. One woman I know used a form of artificial insemination that brought images of turkey basters to mind: she wandered around with a capsule of frozen swimmers tucked safely […]

By christina -- 4 comments

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