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Solo Mother

February 16th, 2008

Saturday’s round up of good things and bad and indifferent

You know, I wouldn’t go through another breakup for all the tea in China, nor for the $108 million that Heather Mills is getting in that oh so celebrity divorce from Sir Paul. 55 million pounds, and she says she has to leave England because everyone hates her. Or some such. Perhaps it was just […]

By christina -- 6 comments

February 10th, 2008

The world’s most superficial holiday has me in a twist

Me. A Single Mom on Valentine’s Day. I’ve got it all planned. A big date with the King of Everything. What could be nicer? It’s my second Valentine’s Day as a single mother, you’d think I’d be pretty nonchalant about the whole thing by now. I mean, it’s a Hallmark holiday. It doesn’t mean much […]

By christina -- 9 comments

February 9th, 2008

OMG IT’S ALMOST VALENTINE’S DAY!

Thank goodness I did laundry today.
See, I’d glanced at the class list the King of Everything’s teacher had kindly sent home, then promptly put it down somewhere and forgot about it. This morning, as I was loading the dryer, a little speck of handwriting peeked out from under the dryer sheets: …”for Valentine’s Day (optional)” […]

By christina -- 2 comments

February 2nd, 2008

Are good memories a sign of healing? You tell me, single mom!

The other morning, I found myself on all fours, bouncing maniacally up and down on the King of Everything’s bed. “Get up get up get up!” I giggled, and the child woke, bouncing and thrashing and wondering what the heck was wrong with his crazy mother. I, myself, was wondering where this strange feeling of […]

By christina -- 5 comments

January 16th, 2008

A fascinating look at the economic forces behind divorce

If you read nothing else today, flip over to Slate and read the excerpts from Tim Harford’s new book, The Logic of Life.
The first excerpt was published yesterday, about the effect of current factors on marriage — utterly fascinating look at the economic reasons behind what armchair pundits are quick to label ‘Black Culture’… but […]

By christina -- 6 comments

January 8th, 2008

Did you survive D-DAY yesterday? Or are you now a single mom?

I’m single, and getting through the holidays was hard. Apparently, it’s not any easier for married couples. In fact, the holidays often put a crushing burden on marriages, and the first working Monday after the New Year sees a spike in divorce filings. According to to a piece in the Guardian yesterday (thanks to Kate […]

By christina -- 0 comments

December 26th, 2007

we don’t all stay single mothers for ever

One of my favorite solomothers–a beautiful singer, a witty writer, a juggler of schedules and budgets and boo-boos and life–is no longer quite so single. Her beau proposed on Christmas day, and she said yes. Her ring is a beautiful blue stone, a topaz? Surrounded with little diamonds, it sparkles like the sky. Truly a […]

By christina -- 7 comments

December 16th, 2007

well, enough about me, single mothers…

how YOU doin’?
Let me guess. Some of you are fighting for child support of have given up on ever receiving it. You’re looking for a new set of tires, or a home, or even a board game or a toy or two for the younger children… or a car to take the kids to serious […]

By christina -- 2 comments

November 29th, 2007

When the going gets tough, the tough go…

Tango.
Perhaps you’re new to this single, post-divorce stuff. Maybe you’re a year or two into it and have decided to just slog through the days, getting things done, taking care of the kids, the job, the car, the house… but,of course, not taking care of yourself. I am a fan of actual therapy, or “Paid […]

By christina -- 3 comments

November 26th, 2007

Listen up, divorced dads

This diatribe will go just as well towards vindictive, angry mothers as it will fathers but, as I’ve just gotten done with a tour of the Blogosphere and read some of the nasty, crappy things some fathers have done to their children to get back at their ex’es… this post will address revenge-seeking fathers.
You suck.
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By christina -- 9 comments